UFO Sighting

So the interviews with potential day care providers continues….right now it looks like we have two really good options, and a third one that we could go with if the others fall through for some reason. We are anticipating making a preliminary decision today or tomorrow.

We stopped yesterday and picked up Ezra a little gift…rather, a larger sized gift (still not sure where we are going to keep it). It’s one of those excer-saucers where he can stand and play with things that surround him. After an assembly process that made me wonder what they are actually doing at the factory, Ezra took to the new ‘toy’ rather well….by trying to stuff nearly everything in his mouth. He certainly enjoyed standing up and being on his own even though he really couldn’t get nearly all that he wanted into his mouth.

It was a little of an odd feeling: we have been letting him lay on the floor and move around, and have been letting him lay in his gym and play around, but this was a little different for some reason. It seemed as though as soon as he was in there, he was on his own…meaning, he didn’t need us too much. That was a mixed bag of emotions for me, and was rather unexpected. There was a moment or two that I wondering if it was a good thing that we got this for him (I know, everything is like that from now on), but I decided to grow up a little and be a little less selfish…..and was promptly rewarded with a huge smile from Ezra as soon as he found us outside of the saucer. After a little irrational reaction, all is well again.

Psych!

Sorry that we haven’t made a posting in a couple of days, but we have been singing and dancing in the streets. Okay, that’s not true, but we have been really busy.

On Friday morning, I had to take a ‘psych test’ for the department (I am testing for an Acting Lieutenant position…which you have to be before you can test for Lieutenant). It’s called a ‘psych test,’ but it’s pretty much an attempt to melt your mind. 800 questions (10 of which were oddly math/vocab), a 20 minute interview with a Dr., and 3 hours later I walked out of there feeling somewhere between a terrible person and a confused soul. It’s weird that they never really ask you any questions about what good you have done in your life…just things like: “have you ever felt like hitting someone?” Yes. “have you gotten pains around your body for no reason?” Yes. “tell me about any written reprimands you have received at work.” Where do I begin? “do you feel angry when someone cuts in front of you in line?” Who doesn’t? On and on it went…I am supposed to get results from the test through the department sometime next week, so keep your fingers crossed.

On a brighter note, Friday night brought the family dinner to our house in celebration of my birthday. Ahna spent a large portion of the day on Thursday and Friday preparing food….two cakes, salad, green beans, and a favorite of mine – Moosewood Pot Pie. It was a lot of fun to have that release after the morning, and it was a lot of fun to be able to spend some non-pressed time with the folks that came down.

By the way – I ordered my season ski pass to Arapahoe Basin on Friday. And it snowed in the mountains all weekend long. Right now it appears like they are going to open this week, which is unfortunate for me since I will be out of town…and would miss opening day for the first time in 7 years. Oh well.

I worked on Saturday…and normally I don’t share much about work…but this time I will share one thing. If your job requires that you have any certification of any type: make sure that it stays current. No, nothing happened to me (that’s another story from a previous time), but something did happen to another guy at work. Do yourself the favor and don’t run into that problem.

Yesterday we headed down to my folk’s house for some breakfast and conversation. It’s been cloudy and cold here all weekend, so the afternoon consisted of us watching some football and chillin’ on the couch. We had a nice time just lounging around for the day and spending time with each other. 

Here are some pics of the latest festivities:

Birthday Fun…

Yesterday I got a little closer to being 32 and 3 days old….according to my best compilation of star charts, moon calendars, desert sand grains, and Incan clocks; I should reach that mark tomorrow. 

I headed home right after getting off of work and arrived to find a decorated house and an Ahna and an Ezra that were excited to start the celebration with me. Not long thereafter, we opened some cards and gifts…I say we because Ezra had a halloween gift to open (from Grandparents Bersagel; it was a book, and he loved reading it) and he then assisted me in opening my gifts. It was a ton of fun to see him reach out and grab the paper and pull it away from the gift…I know that all he wanted to do was eat it, but we can pretend that he was trying to get inside to see what the surprise was. 

Following the gift opening, we headed down to my parent’s neighborhood to go for a walk (we go down there every once in a while just to get a different place to look at), or so I thought. Ahna and my Mom had arranged for her to hang out with Ezra for a while so Ahna could take me out to lunch. It was a wonderful surprise by someone who historically isn’t that great at surprises (spills the beans too easily). It also was only the second time since Ezra was born that we spent time as the two of us – and the first time was so stressed because he was 1 week old that it only lasted about 45 minutes. This time was completely different and it was great to reconnect with her on that level. 

One of my requests for the day was to go swimming with Ezra and we managed to pull it off using the hot tub at my parent’s house. He really enjoyed swimming again, this time having fun floating in the water in a standing position, on his belly, and on his back. For the first time, I dunked Ezra’s head under the water…I was the creation of the reaction – by pulling him back up at a slight angle, it allowed some water to get in his nose…thus creating a moment of panic by Ezra. He was over it in just a minute or two, and I promised him that I would do it right next time.

We went to evening services for Yom Kippur, so we went out to dinner with my parents beforehand. Ahna arranged for us to go to The Old Blinking light in Highlands Ranch…a restaurant that we both really enjoy, and a place that isn’t too far from where services were being held. 

Overall, I could not have asked for a better or more fulfilling day. Oh, the gift that I got this year? Everyone chipped in to get me a season ski pass for Arapahoe Basin. I should be able to order it tomorrow and keep your fingers crossed, use it in about two weeks.

The 4 Month Stats

The doctor’s visit went extremely well….Dr. Sheehan is awesome. Everything looked great as far as his development, health, and activity. The Dr. answered a slew of questions that we had (does everyone have this, or is it just us?) and we had a very comforting conversation about Ezra and what we were doing. Immediately following the well-baby check, Ezra got two vaccinations this month (we are doing Dr. Sears’ recommended alternative vaccination schedule)….the rotavirus and the Dtap. This is the second in the series of these vaccinations for Ezra and he responded very well to them both times. The rotavirus vaccination comes as a liquid, so that one is simple and painless. The Dtap is a shot in the thigh, and as soon as the nurse gave the shot, Ezra gave the ‘what the….?’ look, then proceeded to smile. Seriously – he smiled. The nurse was so shocked that he smiled – and even said that she had never seen that before – that she said that she was going to tell everyone else in the office. Now, I’m sure that plenty of other kids do the same thing…but make no mistake, it makes for some proud parents. 

Also, I can’t remember if I wrote this in an earlier post or not, but on his 4-month birthday, Ezra decided to roll over for the first time from his back to his stomach! He has done it one other time since, and has come close a ton more times. Things are about to change again. Here’s the goods:

Head: 16.5″, 50th percentile

Weight: 16 pounds 2 ounces, 75th percentile

Height: 25.5″, 75th percentile

Check Out The Weather Forecast…

Yea, Yea, Yea, Yea! Can you feel the good energy coming out of Colorado now that we have an exciting weather forecast?

Our local NBC affiliate says this about the weekend: “The weekend may turn colder than our current forecast. Please check back often for forecast updates throughout the week.”

2/3 Of The Way To 6 Months (!)

I suppose that the easier way to say that would be to tell you that Ezra turned 4 months old on Sunday…but the other way somehow is more shocking – at least to me. 

We celebrated his birthday with a trip to Denver for Wee Worship at church, then an afternoon cheering for the Broncos as they beat Tampa Bay. The day was topped off with the monthly phone call from Ezra’s Great-Grandmother in Florida, and the obligatory 4 kisses (I wonder what will happen in a few years…that’s a lot of kisses). 

We head into the doctor’s office tomorrow, so more statistics then. But for now, here are some pictures (it was supposed to be colder today, thus the hat) and the traditional list of numbers:

4 – number of months that Ezra is old

2 – including this one; number of statistics in this list

Walk To D’Feet ALS

The three of us went up to City Park in Denver yesterday to participate in the annual Walk To D’Feet ALS. It’s the fourth year that we have done the walk, of course the last couple of which have been without our motivation: Jeff Dunn (here is the link to a previous post about Jeff). It’s always an inspiring thing to be there with several thousand people with the same hopes and dreams that you have, but it is equally as difficult to know that everyone there understands that without that cure, the disease diagnosis is a sure-fire death sentence. 

As the race was about to begin, they reminded us of an interesting statistic: every 90 minutes someone in the US is diagnosed with ALS. Also, every 90 minutes someone in the US dies from ALS. Lou Gerhig’s Disease is about as efficient of a killer has it comes. It’s one of the struggles of the ALS community as they try to raise awareness…that the number of people with the disease effectively never increases. There really aren’t the long term ‘survivors,’ there isn’t a remission, there aren’t promising treatments, and there isn’t a growing population of people with it. It’s strange that the Walk was on the same weekend as the annual Race For The Cure – where Denver has the largest participation in the nation. The attention, scope, and hype is lightyears apart, but the need and deservedness is no different whatsoever. 

Jay, Karen, and David did the walk with us. A few other friends were there as well but we were unable to meet up with them. Cyrilla and Tanner had a wedding to attend this weekend in Kansas, but raised over $200.00 even though they weren’t going to be at the actual event. We saw people in all phases of the disease and in each of them we saw Jeff. It’s a tough reminder of his absence, but a good reminder of the work that is happening to try to prevent loses like that for other families. 

PS – Jay and Karen took some pictures, so when those get sent over I will post them.

Nothing To Do With Ezra: A Computer, Some Music

So my new computer arrived on Thursday (a new Apple MacBook), and things haven’t gone as smoothly with the migration as originally anticipated. Apple has this little process using a firewire connection between the computers to move all of your data and information (including photos, e-mail, web settings, music, etc) right into their respective places on the new computer. A couple of buttons, wait a couple of hours and it is supposed to be done and you are now off and running. 

Or so it is advertised. I hooked everything up and the migration started as expected. So I went to bed (since it was supposed to take 5.5 hours). I woke up to see that the migration had experienced some sort of problem in the middle of the night and stopped working about half way through the process. When I tried to get it going again in the morning…the new computer didn’t recognize that the old one was connected. So I called tech support, and proceeded to spend the next 2.5 hours working with them on the phone. The bottom line is that somewhere in the migration process (when I was on the phone with tech support) the old computer experienced a major problem and would not reboot. I panicked. Ahna panicked. I said words that I probably shouldn’t say – and lots of them. It wasn’t the music or the e-mail or the programs….it was the pictures. Yea, I know: I should have backed them up before the process…but I hadn’t done that since early summer (before Ezra). 

When I was placed on the phone with a specialist, he told me that the situation was “dire.” I panicked more. Ahna matched the uptake in emotion. But after about 30 minutes of working we were able to get the old computer to reboot, and I was able to get the photos off of there and moved over (kind of…that’s a longer version of this story). I was happy with the progress and went back to the old computer to get more stuff onto the external hard drive…..but nothing happened. As it stands right now, the old computer doesn’t even recognize that there is a hard drive on the computer: no operating system, no memory, no information. I slept okay last night knowing that the important stuff was moved over, but unfortunately not everything was moved. Example: I didn’t get Photoshop moved over, so I have to wait until the new one ships at the end of November (there were plans for a new header on the blog, but I think that will have to wait). 

Perhaps the biggest thing not to get moved over was my e-mail address book. So, I ask a favor: please e-mail me with a quick ‘hello’ so I can get everyone’s address back. 

Part two of this e-mail: a quick review of Coldplay today. I downloaded their newest single (out a few weeks ago) because I thought it was a fairly catchy tune. I also took the time to listen to most of the rest of their new album with the possibility of purchasing that as well. Coldplay is one of those odd bands that are able to appeal to both the pop crowd as well as the stuck-up music crowd (probably where I reside). 

When I finally listened to the song a couple of times I came to the following conclusion: they are trying way too hard. Don’t get me wrong, the song is still worth listening to, but it is way overworked….which is the same impression that I got about their last album and the songs on the newest one. The expectation and their popularity is catching up to them in a big way, and they aren’t creating the original, raw music that made them popular in the first place. 

Their not overworked in the vain of Oasis, but they feel a lot like the late-nineties albums from U2: just trying too hard to recapture some of the things that made them important to begin with. Albums like those often produce a radio-worthy song or two, but normally fall really short on all other accounts…just like the recent work from Coldplay. They need to find themselves again and get back to the pre-Gwyneth days of making some noteworthy tunes. Till then, we will just have to hope for a song that reminds us of what Coldplay can be. 

Speaking of getting back to the way that things can be, this post is the first on the new computer. I hope that things can get back to the ease of the last computer soon…..

Shana Tova!

Shana Tova means “Happy New Year” in hebrew…and as we celebrate Rosh Hashanah this season with Ezra for the first time, we are reminded of how great of a year it has been. Since I had to work yesterday, we went to services on Monday night up at Hudson Gardens. We have been attending services with an informal community serviced through Judaism Your Way for the past couple of years, and have really enjoyed the perspective and inclusivity that we gain with them. 

This year we continued a new tradition for our family (done once before, about 4 years ago) and went out for an Italian dinner on the first evening of the holiday. Don’t ask where it came from, because I don’t know…but several years ago my aunt Rena was visiting from Israel and we did it then. So Monday night we continued it as a larger family…with more visitors from Israel. Two of my Mom’s cousins are in town from Israel for this week while they are on vacation together, so we all went to dinner and the service. 

During the next week or so we are supposed to start reflecting upon the last year and all of the good and bad that we have done. The week ends with Yom Kippur next Thursday, and before then we are supposed to ask for forgiveness for anything and everything that we might have done during this past year that didn’t set well with our family and friends. Since I won’t have the time to contact each of you individually (sorry, I know you understand)…we are going to do a modern blog-inspired ‘forgiveness blast.’ So here we go: read the earlier part of this paragraph and hopefully you say ‘okay.’ That’s it. If you are still reading this, I assume that we are cool.

I Feel More Like I Do Now Than When I First Got Here

BREAKING NEWS (at least in our world it is…I’m not sure exactly when this happened – sometime over the spring or summer – but this is new news to us): Joe Bye has sold the Bucksnort. To his ex-wife (or separated wife). Many of you that don’t live in the area probably have had one exposure to the Bucksnort during our wedding weekend…we all went there the night before the wedding and had a blast. The rest of you don’t know that you missed the coolest bar/restaurant (mostly bar) ever. 

The Bucksnort lives in the legends and stories from both Ahna and I (and Ezra while he was making himself) as well as all of our friends and family. It’s a crappy, broke down, slow serving bar in the middle of nowhere – just outside of Pine, Colorado, which is just outside of Pine Junction, Colorado, which is just outside of Conifer, Colorado, which is just outside of Morrison, Colorado, which is just outside of Lakewood, Colorado, which is just outside of Denver, Colorado, which is just north of Castle Rock, Colorado. It sits in the trees along a dirt road, next to a stream and miles from anything else. It is frequented by bikers during the day, campers on the weekend, and partyers in the know on Friday and Saturday nights. 

Joe used to take up the guitar and play songs that everyone knew and would sing along to….forcing people to dance and drink lots and lots of Antler Ale (a brew made especially for this tiny place by Boulder Brewery). We spent many, many nights up there over the course of the last 9 years including staying too long in a snowstorm, a bachelor party, and lots of perfect gatherings of friends. 

The story that we heard the other day is that Joe sold it off and is no longer playing music at the ‘Snort. The new owner has attempted to fill the music with other acts, but none of them even come close to the energy that Joe brought….so it’s just not the same. Rumor has it that Joe opened a coffee shop in Evergreen or Conifer, but there is no word if he plays there. 

It’s really sad that we don’t have that place to immediately think of as a place to go. Don’t get us wrong, we will return – it’s too good not to. But it won’t be the same. 

PS – there are pictures from there, but some of them are rather embarrassing (Dan), so we will keep them for future blackmail purposes.

Denver Post article about the Bucksnort

By the way, the title for this post is a saying from the Bucksnort. It’s an odd saying that is written on the wall of the men’s restroom…something that took us almost two years of attending weekend nights there to remember. Hmmmm, wonder why.