Off To The Land Of Sweat

Special Florida Edition

You read that right, we are now in Florida. Land of the chad (okay that’s technically five hours drive south from here, but it’s about the most stereotypical thing I could come up with during election season). Ski season started yesterday in Colorado, and we travelled to the humidity-ridden, hot, sticky, election deciding state of Florida. The trip went fairly well….meaning that Ezra did great, but Ahna and I could have done without the 10 hours of travel including a layover in Atlanta. 

See, we started with a 7am flight – which means a 3:30am wake-up call. The flight was very full, but otherwise okay. We arrived into Atlanta at about noon local time and had about 2 hours to kill before we caught the next flight to Jacksonville. A little lunch was nice and refueling, but sleep is awful hard to come by while at an airport. We boarded the plan for the one hour flight, and promptly sat on the runway for 45 minutes…yea, flying through the busiest airport isn’t always the smartest move…but when using airline miles, sometimes you don’t have much of a choice. 

When we checked into our rental car minivan at the airport, they told us we had a new car. Good, we are at a car rental place….we sure shouldn’t be getting an old car. However, I didn’t know how ‘new’ until we started driving….there were 7 miles on the car. Talk about trying out everything for the first time. We got a Chrysler Town and Country, which is a nice car. Yup, neither of us have any problem with the idea of a minivan – seriously, there is space, function, room, and the ability to relax comfortably. Should there be another kid in the future, there might also be a minivan. Hey, settle down….nothing in the plan/works yet. 

My grandparents got Ezra a pack-n-play to sleep in and a chair to sit at the dinner table. It’s really cool that they did this on their own…they’re great. We got to the house just in time for supper, and Grandma didn’t disappoint: sloppy-joe. My favorite. I have tried numerous times to duplicate her recipe, all to no avail. So, I have to come to Florida to get some. After dinner and some playtime, we watched the Presidential debate (which started at 9pm EST…that’s really late compared to the earlier starts in Denver). It was fun to watch it with my Grandparents…we love to talk politics. 

The pictures include a few of Ezra sitting in a chair at the table for the first time. He seemed to love it, so there might be one in our near future when we return home. 

PS – a special note to the Smith’s and Bersagel-Braley’s: our grandparent’s homes all seem to be on the same temperature controls. Wow.

Psych!

Sorry that we haven’t made a posting in a couple of days, but we have been singing and dancing in the streets. Okay, that’s not true, but we have been really busy.

On Friday morning, I had to take a ‘psych test’ for the department (I am testing for an Acting Lieutenant position…which you have to be before you can test for Lieutenant). It’s called a ‘psych test,’ but it’s pretty much an attempt to melt your mind. 800 questions (10 of which were oddly math/vocab), a 20 minute interview with a Dr., and 3 hours later I walked out of there feeling somewhere between a terrible person and a confused soul. It’s weird that they never really ask you any questions about what good you have done in your life…just things like: “have you ever felt like hitting someone?” Yes. “have you gotten pains around your body for no reason?” Yes. “tell me about any written reprimands you have received at work.” Where do I begin? “do you feel angry when someone cuts in front of you in line?” Who doesn’t? On and on it went…I am supposed to get results from the test through the department sometime next week, so keep your fingers crossed.

On a brighter note, Friday night brought the family dinner to our house in celebration of my birthday. Ahna spent a large portion of the day on Thursday and Friday preparing food….two cakes, salad, green beans, and a favorite of mine – Moosewood Pot Pie. It was a lot of fun to have that release after the morning, and it was a lot of fun to be able to spend some non-pressed time with the folks that came down.

By the way – I ordered my season ski pass to Arapahoe Basin on Friday. And it snowed in the mountains all weekend long. Right now it appears like they are going to open this week, which is unfortunate for me since I will be out of town…and would miss opening day for the first time in 7 years. Oh well.

I worked on Saturday…and normally I don’t share much about work…but this time I will share one thing. If your job requires that you have any certification of any type: make sure that it stays current. No, nothing happened to me (that’s another story from a previous time), but something did happen to another guy at work. Do yourself the favor and don’t run into that problem.

Yesterday we headed down to my folk’s house for some breakfast and conversation. It’s been cloudy and cold here all weekend, so the afternoon consisted of us watching some football and chillin’ on the couch. We had a nice time just lounging around for the day and spending time with each other. 

Here are some pics of the latest festivities:

Check Out The Weather Forecast…

Yea, Yea, Yea, Yea! Can you feel the good energy coming out of Colorado now that we have an exciting weather forecast?

Our local NBC affiliate says this about the weekend: “The weekend may turn colder than our current forecast. Please check back often for forecast updates throughout the week.”

Walk To D’Feet ALS

The three of us went up to City Park in Denver yesterday to participate in the annual Walk To D’Feet ALS. It’s the fourth year that we have done the walk, of course the last couple of which have been without our motivation: Jeff Dunn (here is the link to a previous post about Jeff). It’s always an inspiring thing to be there with several thousand people with the same hopes and dreams that you have, but it is equally as difficult to know that everyone there understands that without that cure, the disease diagnosis is a sure-fire death sentence. 

As the race was about to begin, they reminded us of an interesting statistic: every 90 minutes someone in the US is diagnosed with ALS. Also, every 90 minutes someone in the US dies from ALS. Lou Gerhig’s Disease is about as efficient of a killer has it comes. It’s one of the struggles of the ALS community as they try to raise awareness…that the number of people with the disease effectively never increases. There really aren’t the long term ‘survivors,’ there isn’t a remission, there aren’t promising treatments, and there isn’t a growing population of people with it. It’s strange that the Walk was on the same weekend as the annual Race For The Cure – where Denver has the largest participation in the nation. The attention, scope, and hype is lightyears apart, but the need and deservedness is no different whatsoever. 

Jay, Karen, and David did the walk with us. A few other friends were there as well but we were unable to meet up with them. Cyrilla and Tanner had a wedding to attend this weekend in Kansas, but raised over $200.00 even though they weren’t going to be at the actual event. We saw people in all phases of the disease and in each of them we saw Jeff. It’s a tough reminder of his absence, but a good reminder of the work that is happening to try to prevent loses like that for other families. 

PS – Jay and Karen took some pictures, so when those get sent over I will post them.

Nothing To Do With Ezra: A Computer, Some Music

So my new computer arrived on Thursday (a new Apple MacBook), and things haven’t gone as smoothly with the migration as originally anticipated. Apple has this little process using a firewire connection between the computers to move all of your data and information (including photos, e-mail, web settings, music, etc) right into their respective places on the new computer. A couple of buttons, wait a couple of hours and it is supposed to be done and you are now off and running. 

Or so it is advertised. I hooked everything up and the migration started as expected. So I went to bed (since it was supposed to take 5.5 hours). I woke up to see that the migration had experienced some sort of problem in the middle of the night and stopped working about half way through the process. When I tried to get it going again in the morning…the new computer didn’t recognize that the old one was connected. So I called tech support, and proceeded to spend the next 2.5 hours working with them on the phone. The bottom line is that somewhere in the migration process (when I was on the phone with tech support) the old computer experienced a major problem and would not reboot. I panicked. Ahna panicked. I said words that I probably shouldn’t say – and lots of them. It wasn’t the music or the e-mail or the programs….it was the pictures. Yea, I know: I should have backed them up before the process…but I hadn’t done that since early summer (before Ezra). 

When I was placed on the phone with a specialist, he told me that the situation was “dire.” I panicked more. Ahna matched the uptake in emotion. But after about 30 minutes of working we were able to get the old computer to reboot, and I was able to get the photos off of there and moved over (kind of…that’s a longer version of this story). I was happy with the progress and went back to the old computer to get more stuff onto the external hard drive…..but nothing happened. As it stands right now, the old computer doesn’t even recognize that there is a hard drive on the computer: no operating system, no memory, no information. I slept okay last night knowing that the important stuff was moved over, but unfortunately not everything was moved. Example: I didn’t get Photoshop moved over, so I have to wait until the new one ships at the end of November (there were plans for a new header on the blog, but I think that will have to wait). 

Perhaps the biggest thing not to get moved over was my e-mail address book. So, I ask a favor: please e-mail me with a quick ‘hello’ so I can get everyone’s address back. 

Part two of this e-mail: a quick review of Coldplay today. I downloaded their newest single (out a few weeks ago) because I thought it was a fairly catchy tune. I also took the time to listen to most of the rest of their new album with the possibility of purchasing that as well. Coldplay is one of those odd bands that are able to appeal to both the pop crowd as well as the stuck-up music crowd (probably where I reside). 

When I finally listened to the song a couple of times I came to the following conclusion: they are trying way too hard. Don’t get me wrong, the song is still worth listening to, but it is way overworked….which is the same impression that I got about their last album and the songs on the newest one. The expectation and their popularity is catching up to them in a big way, and they aren’t creating the original, raw music that made them popular in the first place. 

Their not overworked in the vain of Oasis, but they feel a lot like the late-nineties albums from U2: just trying too hard to recapture some of the things that made them important to begin with. Albums like those often produce a radio-worthy song or two, but normally fall really short on all other accounts…just like the recent work from Coldplay. They need to find themselves again and get back to the pre-Gwyneth days of making some noteworthy tunes. Till then, we will just have to hope for a song that reminds us of what Coldplay can be. 

Speaking of getting back to the way that things can be, this post is the first on the new computer. I hope that things can get back to the ease of the last computer soon…..

Shana Tova!

Shana Tova means “Happy New Year” in hebrew…and as we celebrate Rosh Hashanah this season with Ezra for the first time, we are reminded of how great of a year it has been. Since I had to work yesterday, we went to services on Monday night up at Hudson Gardens. We have been attending services with an informal community serviced through Judaism Your Way for the past couple of years, and have really enjoyed the perspective and inclusivity that we gain with them. 

This year we continued a new tradition for our family (done once before, about 4 years ago) and went out for an Italian dinner on the first evening of the holiday. Don’t ask where it came from, because I don’t know…but several years ago my aunt Rena was visiting from Israel and we did it then. So Monday night we continued it as a larger family…with more visitors from Israel. Two of my Mom’s cousins are in town from Israel for this week while they are on vacation together, so we all went to dinner and the service. 

During the next week or so we are supposed to start reflecting upon the last year and all of the good and bad that we have done. The week ends with Yom Kippur next Thursday, and before then we are supposed to ask for forgiveness for anything and everything that we might have done during this past year that didn’t set well with our family and friends. Since I won’t have the time to contact each of you individually (sorry, I know you understand)…we are going to do a modern blog-inspired ‘forgiveness blast.’ So here we go: read the earlier part of this paragraph and hopefully you say ‘okay.’ That’s it. If you are still reading this, I assume that we are cool.

I Feel More Like I Do Now Than When I First Got Here

BREAKING NEWS (at least in our world it is…I’m not sure exactly when this happened – sometime over the spring or summer – but this is new news to us): Joe Bye has sold the Bucksnort. To his ex-wife (or separated wife). Many of you that don’t live in the area probably have had one exposure to the Bucksnort during our wedding weekend…we all went there the night before the wedding and had a blast. The rest of you don’t know that you missed the coolest bar/restaurant (mostly bar) ever. 

The Bucksnort lives in the legends and stories from both Ahna and I (and Ezra while he was making himself) as well as all of our friends and family. It’s a crappy, broke down, slow serving bar in the middle of nowhere – just outside of Pine, Colorado, which is just outside of Pine Junction, Colorado, which is just outside of Conifer, Colorado, which is just outside of Morrison, Colorado, which is just outside of Lakewood, Colorado, which is just outside of Denver, Colorado, which is just north of Castle Rock, Colorado. It sits in the trees along a dirt road, next to a stream and miles from anything else. It is frequented by bikers during the day, campers on the weekend, and partyers in the know on Friday and Saturday nights. 

Joe used to take up the guitar and play songs that everyone knew and would sing along to….forcing people to dance and drink lots and lots of Antler Ale (a brew made especially for this tiny place by Boulder Brewery). We spent many, many nights up there over the course of the last 9 years including staying too long in a snowstorm, a bachelor party, and lots of perfect gatherings of friends. 

The story that we heard the other day is that Joe sold it off and is no longer playing music at the ‘Snort. The new owner has attempted to fill the music with other acts, but none of them even come close to the energy that Joe brought….so it’s just not the same. Rumor has it that Joe opened a coffee shop in Evergreen or Conifer, but there is no word if he plays there. 

It’s really sad that we don’t have that place to immediately think of as a place to go. Don’t get us wrong, we will return – it’s too good not to. But it won’t be the same. 

PS – there are pictures from there, but some of them are rather embarrassing (Dan), so we will keep them for future blackmail purposes.

Denver Post article about the Bucksnort

By the way, the title for this post is a saying from the Bucksnort. It’s an odd saying that is written on the wall of the men’s restroom…something that took us almost two years of attending weekend nights there to remember. Hmmmm, wonder why.

One Year Ago

Roughly one year ago (we don’t have the exact date, but it was during the last week of Sept) we found out that we were pregnant. Wow, that’s weird to think about. Sometime in our previous lives we used to judge years by when school let out for summer, or when the Super Bowl was, or when the choir season began, or when a new lease was to be signed, or when our work performance evaluations were due, or when ski season started…now life itself is the determining factor of time. 

Don’t worry, this won’t be a ‘year in review’ post, but we will revisit last Sept quickly. For several reasons we were extremely excited and very nervous about the news last September. We decided to tell just our parents and immediate family that we were expecting…Ahna reminded me yesterday that we told our parents on my birthday. We waited to tell our friends until after the first trimester was complete just to make sure that everything was on the up and up. Boy was it ever. We remember one ultrasound where Ezra was jumping up and down and doing head-over-heel flips…full of anticipation,  we wondered what it would be like to see it in person. 

We talked a lot about the expected changes in life, during the next 10 months as well as afterwards….but one thing that we discussed a lot was how much we enjoyed and celebrated it being the two of us. We intenionally spent a lot of time together doing things that we didn’t think that we would be able to do once Ezra was born. But one thing that we couldn’t have anticipated was how much joy we would get from involving Ezra in our adventures. We thought it would be cool, but had no idea about the fulfillment that we feel. 

It seems like 10 years and 4 lives have passed since last September. It’s hard to remember life without Ezra (either expecting or after birth). It’s strange to think that our home hasn’t changed, our friends haven’t changed, our work hasn’t changed, our families haven’t changes…yet everything changed. 

Here’s the first and the latest pictures of Ezra:

Fall Colors In Colorado

The three of us trekked up to the mountains yesterday to introduce Ezra to the fall season here in Colorado. Every year the Aspen trees change their colors from green to yellow to orange before falling off for the winter. The peak time to see these leaves lasts only about a week at any given place (and that week changes from the northern parts of the state to the southern). 

We drove to one of our favorite places to catch the changes: Kenosha Pass. It’s located right off of 285 about 1.5 hours from our house….and it never fails to impress. I have been to Kenosha almost every year since I moved out here, and Ahna and I have been 4 or 5 times together…but we have never been there exactly at the peak of the change – like yesterday. It was stunning. 

We arrived in the parking lot and fed Ezra before heading off to our secret location. One of the early visits to Kenosha reviled a trail that takes us to an amazing view, but it’s an unofficial trail that isn’t marked at all…so needless to say (but I will anyway), it was us and only us once we hit the trail. We enjoyed the scene and the hike for a couple of hours before heading back home – there was much to do in the evening.

Okay, not much ‘to do’, more like: a show to watch on TV. Yup, The Office started up again last night after a long time away; and we missed it. The hour long premier didn’t disappoint and was one of the funniest episodes that we can remember. It’s good to have it back.

Continuing The Theme

70% less energy use. 65% less water use. 

The new washer and dryer are in and have already been put to work. Ahna spent a large portion of her free time yesterday cleaning up and organizing into baskets the laundry area…and it looks great. See, in order to get the new appliances, we had to remove the bi-fold closet doors that used to enclose the older washer and dryer set. Due to the size of the front-loaders, we decided to remove the doors…thus ensuring the need to organize and keep clean the appearance of the closet. It sits right off of our kitchen and next to the primary restroom for guests, so people will see it. No big deal, that’s why we got black. Ahna and I moved out the old washer and dryer and placed them on Craigslist for sale. We then installed a new gas line, new burst-proof washer lines, and cleaned out the area underneath the units (somewhat surprising how much stuff gets back/under there. I suppose that you should move the appliances every once in a while to clean: like more often than a few years). The delivery guys showed up and installed the new stuff. We were expecting better cleaning, drying, less detergent, less gas, etc…but what surprised us was the difference in sound: a ton less; which is nice when you don’t have doors.