Product Review: Luna Lullaby Soothing Blanket

So there are no new pictures of Ezra. No new pictures of deer, oh wait. Nothing much to report from yesterday (it was fairly relaxed, did include a visit from our Hypnobirthing coach Nancy, and did include a good night’s sleep)…so in lieu of making up something just for the sake of a new post, I will make up something just for the sake of a new post. And because we really like these blankets. 

When Abby, Teva, and Micah gave us a package of three blankets for our baby shower – exclaiming that these are the best things ever – we were excited, but a little confused as to how blankets could somehow top ice cream as the best thing ever. Fast forward several months and I am here to tell you that these blankets have made their way up the ‘best thing ever’ rankings to just behind ice cream (don’t know if anything will ever eclipse a good cookies-n-cream double scoop). They are technically soothing blankets designed for swaddling, but we use them for nearly everything: car seat cover for walks, an emergency spit-up wiper, a swaddler, and a blanket. If you are telling yourself “that doesn’t sound like everything,” you have forgotten what it is like to live with a newborn. 

Back to the review: these make a great gift, especially for a summertime blanket/cover. You can order many different styles on-line and shipping actually doesn’t take all that long when it comes via ground. Simple enough. Here’s the link: Luna Lullaby Soothing Blankets

 

Oh, Deer!

We went down to my folk’s house last night for dinner (hooray for Grandma’s sloppy-joe!) and encountered this male mule deer on their property. 

Our First Trip To The Mall

We decided to take yesterday morning and introduce our son to the wonderful world of consumerism. Okay, it wasn’t that bad, but we did go to the mall. I had given Ahna a gift card to a sporting goods store for her birthday so that she could get some new running shoes. After a morning nursing, we headed out for a nice long and hot walk, then trekked up to Park Meadows to try to find Ahna some new kicks. We estimated that we would be pushing the sleeping/feeding limits, so we brought a bottle of pumped milk to tide Ezra over until we got home. All of our predictions came true (including feeding him in the middle of Ahna trying on shoes), but we failed to think that the bottle wouldn’t fill him up. So, we headed out to the car and Ahna nursed him as we sat listening to music. It was our first ‘on the road’ experience with nursing, and I think both of us where comfortably surprised with the results. 

In the afternoon, we had a quick nap (see Ahna’s picture below), then had some family over for a visit. Last evening found us enjoying a wonderful meal with Jay and Karen. They brought over dinner and made it for us in the kitchen – a great recipe for bean burrito and homemade guacamole….oh, and a beer or three. 

The sleep issues continue: last evening, he only slept for one hour between 3pm and 10pm. He just seems to fight going to sleep and will use any stimulation (people holding him, lights, but not bothered by noise) to avoid closing his eyes. It did work to our benefit as he slept better during the night than in the past couple.

A follow-up on the Fuzzi Bunz: things went pretty well yesterday. We did have one diaper that almost leaked (it was very loose when we changed him), but that was due to us not fastening it correctly. Then at two this morning, we did have another diaper that actually leaked…not yet sure why that happened. The laundry is in process, and voila! the poop is gone. 

Those Bunz Are So Fuzzi

After waiting for the umbilical cord to fall off, and his circumcision to heel; we have started using the cloth diapers! We decided on a brand named Fuzzi Bunz since we have some good friends that used them for their son just this last year…local expert advice. They are really easy to use: when you remove them, separate the liner from the diaper, toss in the pail, wash in the washer, put them back together, put them on Ezra. The breastfed stool doesn’t need to be washed or rinsed off of the diaper before washing them since it will dissolve in the wash, but when we encounter solid stool we will need to scrap it into the toilet before washing the diapers.

We purchased a ‘starter kit’ with 18 diapers (plus several extras) that included our choices of colors. The small size will last until he is 18 pounds then we will have to order more. Even though the disposables have been really simple (and we will continue to use them as needed, ie: travel, when we forget to do laundry, etc), it certainly has reminded us about how filling they are to the landfills. The primary reason that we chose to use cloth diapers was in the hopes of minimizing Ezra’s environmental footprint, so we are very excited about starting to use them. Today is the first full day of use, so hopefully we will have nothing but good stories to report tomorrow!

Where The Kisses Are His and Hers and His

On Saturday afternoon we took Ahna’s parents to the airport for their journey back to Wisconsin. Even during the car ride home, but especially when we returned to the house, there was a very lonely feeling in the air. It’s true that Three’s Company, but three seems like only two when one can’t do anything. 🙂

It was the only time (other than the first night at home) when we were alone…we have had family in town, and Dave and Mary Jo staying with us since then. True, my family is still here – and they better be since they live here – but there was a very tangible difference between Saturday night and the previous 16 days. We are still adjusting to not having extra help always waiting by, but we are slowly starting to figure things out…and we will be calling on my folks more and more for help. We very much miss all of the family that came here to celebrate Ezra and to help us, and can’t wait to see most of you in just a few weeks!

Yesterday was spent recovering from the previous night, in which Ezra didn’t give either of us much sleep at all. It was perhaps the toughest night to date, so several naps were in order. He continues to fight going to sleep after feeding – at one point yesterday, staying awake for the entire three hours between nursings! That did lead to some better sleep last night, for which we are thankful. Here are a couple of pictures taken sometime in the 11pm hour last night…he loves to have his hands out.

Heeeeeeeere’s Ezra!

That title of the post is supposed to sound like the intro to the old Tonight Show intro with Johnny Carson…so go back and re-read it to yourself channeling the best Ed McMahon that you can (whose house is available if you want it). Nothing genius, clever, or transcendent today – since I know that is exactly the writing style that you have gotten used to – just the two week pictures that I promised a couple of days ago. By the way, the blanket that you see pictured was made by Mary Jo over the last couple of months for Ezra. 

14 Days And Counting

Well, it’s actually 15 days from today, but this post was due last night so we will pretend. Yesterday turned out to be a lot busier than I originally thought since we had a doctor’s appointment in the late morning, then some chores to do (long overdue cleaning of the garage), then a ceremony to go to last night (that I had forgotten about until I checked my calendar). All of that means that I didn’t get some of the good two-week pictures that I promised in the last post, so I will work on those today. 

We headed back to Parker Hospital – where our OB’s office is located – for a follow up visit for Ahna. They were running a little behind, so we ended up sitting in the room for nearly a hour for a simple 5 minute deal. Everything checked out great, and Ahna was subsequently given permission to return to driving and to lift Ezra and the car seat, but still no lifting anything heavier than him or anything above her head for 4 more weeks. There is a pretty good sense of freedom radiating from her now that she doesn’t have to rely on anyone else to do anything.

Last night we headed to a badge ceremony at the fire department. There were two promotions and one reclassification (where I fit in) that were given new badges in the ceremony. Since October of 2001 when the department created an Engineer assignment (and when I was promoted to that spot); they had classified it as a stipend position…basically meaning that I was a Firefighter that was assigned to drive, not promoted. After a lot of work during my time on the union E-Board then continued work by all of the assigned drivers, we finally got the Engineer spot turned into an official promoted position within the town. Our own pay grade, our own leadership and responsibility driven job description, and our own new badge. It’s about time. It was great that all of this family turned out to be in town so they could come along and be there for the events. 

I was able to snap a couple of pictures between paragraphs as we changed and bathed him…so hopefully those will suffice for now. As I was adding the pictures, Tim Tonge (our department photographer who’s main job is weather forecasting) sent along a few pictures of me from last night, so I included them as well (the group taking the swearing-in, and the front shot of the Chief shaking my hand). Thanks Tim!

Two Week Check-Up

This afternoon we headed back to the doctor’s office (is it me, or does it seem like the only other place that we have been for the last 6 months are doctors offices?) for Ezra’s two week check-up. For those whose calculators are working right, today is in fact day 13. Don’t worry, it’s close enough. The visit went well, it was a normal check of weight, height, head circumference; but there was also the heal prick blood tests required by the state. I don’t know if every state has these, but there are two of them: one at birth, and one at two weeks. They need to get a sample of blood for five different tests, and it’s a decent amount of it. As expected, he wasn’t thrilled by the sample-getting, but he eventually settled back down. He still hasn’t lost his umbilical cord, but the doctor thinks that should happen very soon. The doctor also gave the ‘all clear’ on the healing of his circumcision. Numbers today: Weight: 9 pounds, 2 ounces. Height: 22 inches. Head: 14.75 inches.

Thanks to the Smith’s for the flowers!

The Charleston 9

I know that this isn’t technically related to Ezra, but it is an important thing to discuss today. One year ago, nine firefighters gave their lives in Charleston, South Carolina attempting to save life and property. It is the single deadliest incident in the fire service since September 11, and is an unprecedented loss for all of us.

I was at work the night of the furniture store fire, and as the reports started rolling in, we all jumped on the computers searching for more information. 2 lost, then 3, then 5, then 7, then finally 9. It was one of the most heart breaking, stomach turning nights of our lives.

There are a lot of things that went wrong contributing to their deaths: many of them systemic problems within the Charleston Fire Department, many of them systemic problems within the fire service in general, many of them poor decisions that night. However, while it is arguable that their deaths were unnecessary or preventable; it is inarguable that they are heroes in the truest sense of the word. 

All that we can do now as a fire profession is learn from what happened on June 18, 2007 and make sure that it never happens again through training and dedication. What we must do as a nation is to never forget the sacrifice that they made, and the sacrifice that your local firefighters are making as you read this. Each year about 100 firefighters die in the line of duty.

Here is the Charleston Firefighters Union page.

Here is an excellent page dedicated to the incident by the Charleston Post and Courier.

Here is a video about a basketball team (that one of the firefighters coached) that will brings tears to your eyes. 

Here’s to you: Captain William “Billy” Hutchinson, 48, 30 years of service; Captain Mike Benke, 49, 29 years of service; Captain Louis Mulkey, 34, 11.5 years of service; Engineer Mark Kelsey, 40, 12.5 years of service; Engineer Bradford “Brad” Baity, 37, 9 years of service; Asst. Engineer Michael French, 27, 1.5 years of service; Firefighter James “Earl” Drayton, 56, 32 years of service; Firefighter Brandon Thompson, 27, 4 years of service; Firefighter Melvin Champaign, 46, 2 years of service.

 

What The Heck Is He Looking At?

On a fairly uneventful day yesterday, I got to thinking about what Ezra seems to be staring at…especially since he likes two things in particular (other than light itself). 1) ceiling fans 2) blinds that let a little light through. We had been told that he can only basically see what is 6-10 inches in front of him and everything else is blurry, so I was curious as to what he actually saw. I found this article which helped explain it more:

“Yet many books about infant development still say that babies can only focus 7 to 10 inches from their face. While infants are able to focus at any distance, at first they do not have very good control of their ciliary muscles. This means that during the first 2 months of life they may not focus accurately. Sometimes they focus too close (in front of the object), sometimes too far (behind the object).”

Interesting. Still makes me wonder if he can tell the difference between a ceiling fan and a spider (not that he even knows what each of those are), and if we are sitting in front of a fan (from his perspective) if he can tell that my head and the fan are two different objects. It does help make sense of the fact that during his first day home, he was tracking me while in the swing (from about 3 feet away). 

Anyhow, we did go for a really long walk yesterday – at least in comparison to the previous couple of days. It was the traditional ‘Switchgrass’ route that we have enjoyed, but it was the first time in several months due to it’s proximity to restrooms and it’s proximity to flat land. Ahna did an amazing job of pushing through the entire way just 11 days after the c-section. She is quite the inspiration!